Book of the Month - August 2024
Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools
Tyler Staton - ISBN: 978-0310365358 - 2022
Author:
Tyler Staton
Tyler Staton is the Lead Pastor of Bridgetown Church in Portland, Oregon, and the National Director of 24-7 Prayer USA. He is passionate about pursuing prayer--communion and conversation with God--while living deeply, poetically, and freely. Tyler believes that life is about relationships, prayer is an invitation, and justice is kinship. Tyler is the author of Praying Like Monks, Living like Fools and Searching for Enough. He lives in Portland with his wife Kirsten, and their sons Hank, Simon, and Amos.
Brief Synopsis:
Prayer is the source of Jesus's most astonishing miracles and the subject of Jesus's most audacious promises, and yet, people find prayer to be boring, obligatory, or confusing. Join Tyler Staton, author, pastor, and national director of the 24/7 Prayer movement, as he invites you to discover the incredible gift of prayer.
Within the pages of Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools, Staton addresses common roadblocks to prayer and gives you the confidence to come to God just as you are. Through timely biblical teaching, powerful storytelling, and insights on historic Christian practices, Staton gives you the tools you need to:
Express your doubts and disappointments about prayer
Discover and practice multiple postures of prayer, including silence, persistence, confession, and more
Understand and embrace the wonder and mystery of prayer in everyday life
Open or reopen the line of communication with your Creator and experience afresh his divine power on earth
If you're feeling disheartened, disappointed, or distracted in your prayer life, let Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools be your guide as you learn to enjoy prayer in its purest form: a vital, sustaining, powerful connection with God that is more real and alive than you could have ever imagined.
Insights:
“Prayer can’t be mastered. Prayer always means submission. To pray is to willingly put ourselves in the unguarded, exposed position. There is no climb. There is no control. There is no mastery. There is only humility and hope. To pray is to risk being naive, to risk believing, to risk playing the fool.”
“Only when you see who you really are can you also see how profoundly you matter. … ‘Be still, and know I am God.’ Slow down. Remember who God really is. Remember who you really are. That’s prayer.”
“How do we take Jesus up on his power to heal? Confession. Confession is how we turn to him, look him in the eye, and acknowledge his presence here with us, not to judge, but to rescue.”
“Wrestling with God through persistent prayer is a confirmation of true belief, not distressing doubt. Those who only half-heartedly believe don’t take offence at silence. It is only those who believe and believe hard—hard enough to walk out on a limb of faith with our full weight, who feel that limb snap beneath us and send us into a free fall without a harness, who care to wrestle with a God who at times seems fickle—it is only those who are offended by silence.”
“Scripture makes it clear that God collects two things—prayers and tears. This world in its current form is passing away, but our prayers and tears are eternal.”
Should I read it or skip it?
Everyone should read this book. As a pastor, I have read lots of books on prayer. This book has already become one I will reread.
I read this book with my church’s staff. We would spend about 20-30 every Tuesday breaking down the chapters week by week. I also listened to the audio version of the book, so I used both the printed copy and the audiobook I checked out from the library.
I love Staton’s style and his openness and honesty. As a pastor, he is both a teacher and a prayer practitioner. As Christians, we all should be but Staton has a special connection to prayer. He tells stories of his own prayer life as well as those he pastors.
I love how each chapter focuses on a specific aspect of prayer. He doesn't stick to classic cliches about prayer. For instance, in the chapter on prayer as work, he focuses on prayer for the lost. He acknowledges God’s silence and how sometimes it seems like God’s silence can be capricious. The chapter on how prayer helps us deal with the boring or mundane of life generated lots of conversation.
So while I think everyone should read this book, I think reading it with a group of friends provides the best growth and life transformation opportunities.
