Week #1: The Purpose of Praying: Connecting with God
Blog Series Intention Recap
This four-week series approaches what it means to live a life of prayer. Starting with the difference between the joy of a real relationship through the gospel versus empty religious duty, this series will encourage students to develop a meaningful prayer life by overcoming distractions, prioritizing God’s presence, and using God’s Word as fuel for effective prayer.
This post is part of the series “Praying.” Click here to see the rest of the posts.
Let’s jump into Week #1:
Prayer is more than words; it is a vital connection to God that deepens our relationship, expresses our dependence, and allows us to hear from Him.
Why it matters:
Prayer is a relationship, not just a ritual.
It is a two-way communication with God.
Through prayer, we express our need for God in everything.
Prayer should be a daily practice that fosters intimacy with God.
Go Deeper
What is Prayer?
Prayer is talking with God. It's as simple as that. Like you talk to your parents or friends, prayer is how we talk to God. But it’s more than just saying words—building a relationship. When you pray, you especially connect with God. You share your thoughts, feelings, and needs with Him. And you also listen, because God has things He wants to share with you too.
Prayer as a Relationship
Think about your best friend. You talk to them, spend time with them, and get to know them better. The more you talk, the closer you become. Prayer is like that with God. It’s not just about asking for things or saying the right words. It’s about getting to know God better and letting Him know you. When you pray, you are spending time with God, just like you would with a friend.
In the Bible, God invites us to be close to Him. James 4:8 says, “Come near to God and He will come near to you.” When you pray, you are coming near to God. You are opening your heart to Him and letting Him into your life. This is how a relationship grows—by spending time together.
Communication with God
Prayer is a two-way conversation. When you pray, you talk to God, but you also need to listen. God speaks to us in many ways—through the Bible, through thoughts and feelings, and sometimes through other people. When you pray, take time to be quiet and listen. Ask God to speak to your heart.
Have you ever tried to talk to someone who didn’t listen to you? It’s frustrating, right? Well, God always listens when we pray. 1 John 5:14 says, “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.” God hears every word we say, and He cares about what we have to say. But prayer isn’t just about talking. It’s also about listening. When we listen, we can hear what God wants to say to us.
Expressing Dependence on God
When you pray, you are telling God that you need Him. This is important because we can’t do everything on our own. We need God’s help in our lives. In Philippians 4:6, the Bible tells us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” When you pray, you are showing that you trust God to take care of you.
Prayer is like asking for help when you need it. Imagine trying to lift something heavy by yourself. It’s tough! But when someone stronger comes to help, the load is easier to carry. That’s what prayer does. It takes our worries and problems and gives them to God, who is strong enough to handle anything.
God wants us to depend on Him. He wants us to come to Him with our problems, our needs, and our fears. Prayer is how we do that. It’s how we say, “God, I need you. I can’t do this on my own.” And God is always ready to help.
Scriptural Support: Pray Continually
The Bible has a lot to say about prayer. One of the most important things is that we should pray all the time. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 says, “Pray continually.” This doesn’t mean you have to be on your knees all day long. It means you should keep God in your thoughts and talk to Him throughout the day.
Praying continually means you are always aware that God is with you. It means you can talk to Him anytime, anywhere. Whether you’re happy, sad, or in need, you can pray. And when you do, you are keeping that connection with God strong.
Philippians 4:6-7 also encourages us to pray. It says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” This verse reminds us that prayer is the answer to worry. When we pray, we can find peace in knowing that God is in control.
How does this help me understand, “Praying?”
Prayer is not just something you do once in a while. It’s something you should do every day. Just like you eat food to keep your body healthy, you need to pray to keep your relationship with God healthy. The more you pray, the closer you will be to God.
Make prayer a habit. Start your day with prayer, and end your day with prayer. Talk to God throughout the day. When you’re happy, thank Him. When you’re sad, ask Him for help. When you need something, tell Him. And don’t forget to listen. God wants to speak to you too.
Prayer is a powerful way to connect with God. It’s how you build a relationship with Him, communicate with Him, and show that you depend on Him. Make prayer a regular part of your life, and watch your relationship with God grow stronger every day.
